the beginner of 2012

haaaaa-CHOOOOOOMMMM!!!
berdebu blog ni!!! gile lama tade entry.
masuk setiap hari tp tak tau nak update apa...
xkan setiap kali nak update cite pasal anak je kan.
mcm org lain tade anak lak.. haha
tp tu je cite yg aku ada so far..
pasal anak n update dia hahahaha
oh yeah.. lupa plak..
HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!!!
hope this year bring more prosperity, more luck more MONEY, more love, more vacation and paling penting more time for my sweet mini family.
And Alhamdulillah.. the 1st month dah dpt berita baik..
syukur nikmat ke atas-Nya.
Aku dpt offer transfer dept which i dont have to work on weekends anymore!!!
yippieee!!! n lg best suami kesayangan dpt mengajar at the same time jd tutor kwn dia utk class animation.. n plg best ada tempah artwork dia!!! yeah!!!! it's a good start in 2012..
hopefully bertambah2 lah rezeki kami..

1 day old!

oh utk update lil muffin, si Arissa Dafina..
now dia sibuk try memantapkan suara dia nak challenge amy search agak nya..
asik jerit je2.. bangun2 dah test suara.. tp bukan nangis lah..dia JERIT.
AAAAaaaaAAAAaaa... <-- gitulah gamak nya..

ni dah belas2 hari..
yes, u a a princess in mama n papa life.

time raya.
Arissa time ni almost 2 months.

my lil drifter!

dah boleh merangkak tp malas skit..
naik walker laju kemain! siap buat drift angkat kaki..
mama kagum n nganga jap bila tgk arissa buat camtuh!

time ni rasa nya dia 4 month onwards kot.
watching tv with papa
eh ke lebih pose utk mama??
haha

my anak bertuah ye GEBU cam muffin!

Arissa n mama muka br bangun tido :)

and the best part Arissa ni super friendly..
as long mulut kau bukan jenis LOUD (ami, aku rasa dia leh nangis ngan kau! hahaha)
sure dia akan suka n senyum sentiasa.. tp kalau suara leh pecahkan tingkap kaca
anak aku akan sentap n lawan suara kome dgn tangisan plh high pitch la!

niece snap this pic n mms to me while am working
comels!

time gi shopping with papa n mama..
tgh practice vocal.

swimming lesson with papa.
she loves water!

eksyen..
nak float sendiri. :P

auwwww... geram je tgk gambar2 dia..
biasa lah org kata bila kita dah jadi mak ni naluri keibuan ni kuat..
so bila tgk semua gambar2 ni mcm best nye ada anak!
pelengkap keluarga!
btw arissa is turning 7th month this 21st jan.
n we r planning to take her for vacation this year.
Insyallah kalau ada rezeki lebih terbang negara lain
if tak then dlm Malaysia je..
actually mama dia yg excited nak gi berjalan sbb last year papa dia gi Perth tinggalkan mama dia.. now its our turn kan Arissa.. jom gi jalan2!!!

miss!

hey BLOG!
i miss u!
will update soon!!
daaa.....

Salah aku or salah org yg berkata2..?

hurghhh da lama tak update blog!!

as i mention b4 once da bertiga mmg susah la nak update..

ingat cuti bersalin ni ada la free time kan..

oh mmg tak yer!! dgn anak nak breastfeed lg, dgn nak tido, nak mandi kan dia..

tu belum cite part aku berpantang..

bangun je pagi bertungku lepas mandi anak bertungku lg..

but my mum do help me a lot lah!!

thanks u so much mak!!! tanpa mak terkial2 n kelam kabut lah hidup aku..

oh btw, aku bernasib baik sgt sbb darah nifas aku berhenti a day b4 puasa.

so aku till now alhamdulillah tak tinggal lg puasa w'pun kadang2 badan agak gigil gak

sbb breastfeed arissa tp still boleh tahan lah.. Alhamdulillah..

well aku bukan nak cite sgt pasal ni kot for this post..

nak cite pasal mulut...

haishh people who knows me mmg tau lah aku ni mmg mulut bising..

pok pek pok pek.. n susah nak stop..

but then aku bukan jenis nak mengata org tak tentu pasal apatah lg fitnah!!

weii.. fitnah tu jauh mmg tak la.. aku mmg elak kan.. dosa dia nauzubillah spt membunuh org..

tak baik kan... btw, aku dpt tau dr seseorang yg sgt rapat ngan aku ada seseorang terkilan dgn aku sbb aku punya mulut.. well org yg terkilan tu pun agak rapat dgn aku actually n its upset me more bila cara dia sampai kan kat org rapat yg cite kat aku mcm aku yg buat cite.. haishhh..

so sedikit sebanyak mcm "eh.. apsal lak??!! things come out from ur mouth n its not only me who heard it.." but again... aku fikir sedalam2nya n realistik n logiknya.. bila org marah dia xkan ingat ape yg keluar dr mulut dia.. semua dia main tabur jer.. so aku pun cam "hurmm.. oklah.. sorry lah sbb aku amik benda yg keluar dr mulut dia tu serious which am not suppose to sbb org tgh marah kan.. yg betol jd salah, yg salah jd betol... so i admit that is my mistake to take that words seriously n to share to the person that very important in ur life... part sharing tu aku actually nak tutup je mulut aku n malas nak masuk campur hal2 camni tp bila org dok push2 tanya aku so aku pun jd cam kalut.. so kat sini again n again aku nak clearkan I AM SO SORRY IF I HURT UR FEELING WITH OR WITHOUT ANY INTENTION.. i dont want this to be reason for us to be apart n to ruin our very2 closed tight relationship.

My bundle of joy!

Arissa Dafina Binti Mohd Bakir

Alhamdulillah syukuran...

i have safely deliver to a very beautiful girl

on 21st June 2011, Tuesday. At Naluri Medical Centre, Wangsa Maju

Born at 9.14pm, weight 3.4kg n it was normal delivery.

Dear Arissa, welcome to the world.

Mama & Papa loves you so much

my motivation.

Oh i so wanna share this.
I think this motivate me a lot.
I am not a strong person even i dont look like 1.
I cried when i get hurt
and still crying if i remember things that hurt me badly.
so start from now on.. if i feel down
i will read this again n again.
n hopefully it works everytime i need it so much. :)
n yes i will think of my BABY!!!
she's the 1 will keep me on moving n be more positive!!

i am 37 weeks now!!

Salam :)
nope, not yet.. im still here masih berdua belum bertiga.
waiting for her another few weeks utk poop out!
oh betapa tak sabar nya + tersangat lah takut nye nak bersalin.
tp im going to redha sbb if org lain boleh y cant i???
lgpun badan je besaq tp nak gentaq lebih plak.
uisshh gelitis lah hang ni!
n kalau boleh n i hope so i can try me best to keep away from any drugs.
especially epidural. Pray for me i can handle it, Insyallah.
tp kalau terpaksa then i had too lah kan..
semua org daya ketahanan dia beza2 kan..
n hopefully its going to be a normal delivery, amin...
So update on the baby "A", she is doing ok n very active in the tummy.
now weight 3kg's which i think she already add up on lg...
coz that was from 2 weeks check up
skang aku rasa da 3.++kg's.
Perut pun da terasa berat giler
n now kaki da kembang mengalahkan binatang mitos si bigfoot tuh.
aku gi kedai try semua kasut yg nampak comfort tp semua tak leh nak masuk
even much more bigger size than my actual size.
giler debab kaki aku cam pau gebu.
nyum nyum..
tp hari tuh ade la beli 1 kasut tu masa test kat sana sedap n ok lah
stil bley masuk tu pun skit lah
tp 2 hari lepas tu terus tak leh!!! OMG!!! kaki aku cam belon nak meletop kalau pakai
n its painful kalau paksa pakai!!
so everyday aku kerja pakai selipar je
kalau cantik or fancy2 takpe lah gak kan ni mmg style flip flop punya
mmg slumber ubi muka pakai selipar.
en kittycat everynite kena letak minyak kat kaki aku
no urut2 coz sakit giler but then i ask him to urut kat betis tu jelah
kaki semua da start lenguh2 n i cant walk far distance already
even dlm train pun aku da tak bg chance utk org yg masih ade keupayaan berdiri utk duduk di "seat khas" tuh.. Aku akan diri depan diaorg n tunjuk.. I AM PREGNANT LOOK yg PLG INNOCENT! so i will get the seat for sure lah kan.. hahaha dulu aku bg chance je org nak duduk n aku pun diri jauh2 dr kerusi sbb pk maybe org lain lg deserve better dr aku. NOW NO MORE!!! NO NO NO! Baju2, tuala, barut, bengkung, alas tilam bantal segala semua br cuci semalam. geram je tgk baju si kenit tu rasa nak gigit2 je.. kalah lipas hutan punya keganasan.
oh aku mcm tade byk pic kenangan time pregnant nie. :(
byk kali da plan mcm2 nak buat photoshoot bagai lah tp semua dgn encik kittycat lah
encik kittycat snap. I so wanna have black n white picture.
cam cool n stylo then frame with black frame line... perghh!!
tp cam tak jd.. n now encik kittycat n me plan nak beli je filem polaroid
senang skit kan tak yah hantar cuci ni terus proses gambar tuh.
pastu susun2 dlm frame ta-daaaaaa!!! siap.
tp mahal lah!!! mencik tau. 10 keping rm27!!! haiyohh!!
tp demi kenangan harus lah beli.
tp tade lah aku nak snap ala2 "ber-NAKED lady" mesti lah pakai sopan2.
oh rasa tu je nak update kot.
aku rasa next update aku da bertiga kot, Insyallah.
itu pun IF rajin la hahaha
which usually not lah..
sorry not pic for this post.
eh2 mcm org kisah je kan.
hahaha chalowww!!!!

Baby Shower in da House.

Happy Labour Day to all pekerja yg berwibawa n tak <-- which is me. heh.
Oh masa cuti ahad tu.. At last dpt cuti n tade concert!!! SYUKURAN!!
lg semula... so Ahad since da dpt cuti yg susah nak mati ni
my friends plan to do the baby shower 4 me.
wow.. tak pernah terpikir yg ada org nak celeb utk aku.
seriously rasa terharu giler.

Mine baby shower's :)

So the event suppose start at 11 am.

tp nama pun melayu so janji melayu harus la kita patuhi kan..
drpd kul 11am kita delay ke 12 pm hahahaa
actually mmg da budget pun sure diaorg dtg lambat.
Aku n encik kittycat bgn awal giler
coz nak kemas rumah n bg wangi2 skit..
so boleh la diaorg masuk je puji..
"Amboi wangi nye rumah mak buyung nie...."
tp hakikatnya tade sape perasan rumah aku wangi!!
penat je aku spray"Air wick" suku botol hahahahaha
Around 9.30am mcm tu perut bg hint baik punya...
perut da main drum berirama.
baby kicking2 bg hint "im hungry pls feed me!!"
so mintak encik kittycat gi kedai beli roti, tuna, mayo n eggs
for making sandwiches for the event n alang2 sambil buat sambil ngap.
so buat 2 jenis sandwich = tuna n scrambled eggs sandwich
kang ade yg tak ske 1 of it boleh mkn lain kan.
tgh buat sandwich, Awir pun dtg.. of some of my friend call her Wirda.
she's the organizer cum decorator..
dia da mcm mak jenab dah!!!
tgn kiri kanan penuh paper bag n plg best cupcakes semua tunggang terbalik.
bukan nak call suh tlg amik kan kat bawah..
if not boleh je mintak encik kittycat turun tlg.
ok after Awir sampai je, then di ikuti ngan Sookie n Hasni,
Ain, idot n ajib(husband ain).. tp ajib just tlg angkat kan brg je
pastu dia ca alib but...
and di ikuti encik kittycat yg malu sbb event utk pompuan
so dia keluar merayau2 n dia kata if mat sah(bf Syaz) n Kuchai (bf Awir)
dah dtg br call dia.
Syaz n Shah dtg lambat coz diaorg tido nak dekat kul 7 am.
cafe syaz kan tutup kedai 2 am n since shah keje ngan family syaz
so dia pun kena habis keje time tu jer..
lg lah plak lepas habis je keje usually diaorg terus gi pasar borong beli brg2..
giler penat kan!!!!


n kitaorg kira buat pot luck lah.. so jimat skit.
Mak bagi mihun goreng - thanks mak!!! aku plg senang sandwich! hahaha
Ain bawak bread puding yg yummylicious!
Idot bwk Big Apple donuts.. yg hampir semua nya chocolate je sbb idot suka kot hehe
Sookie & Hasni bwk popiah n fruit koktail yg refreshing n popiah yg sgt crispy dan lazat!
Awir bawak cuppies n all the candies.. minah ni semua yg manis bg dia.
n last Syazo bwk Domino's Pizza tp plg cpt habis.

The yummy foods!!!

The Guys
who join the baby shower!!
haha so GAY.
from left : Kuchai n Mat Sah.

Sampai je semua org..
semua da bising2 lapar.
so activity pertama of course la.. MAKAN!!!
semua serbu cam piranha... lawak giler
seko2 da kebulur tak mkn oh kecuali idot
dia sempat mkn nasi goreng.. ceh.
Time ni semua dah ade.. well actually ada la few tak dpt dtg.
sob sob kalau ade sure lg meriah
tp semua org ada hal masing2 kan..
mcm la aku ni special sgt sampai semua kena dtg hahaha
masa tu seko2 da kenyang cam buaya malas
so semua mcm sleepy.. n diaorg ckp nak tgk hadiah
so upacara pembukaan hadiah di jalankan..
ok pic tade lg sbb ni semua org lain punya camera..
aku tade sape nak snap sbb encik kittycat tak balik lg time nie...
tp best oh hadiah2 yg aku dpt..
thanks my lovely gorgeous friends!!
So what did i get..

The lovely baby rocking coat.
i love too the bits!
thanks Ain, Idot, Farah n Ecah!!!

from Ain, Ecah, Farah n Idot, aku dpt baby coat yg super comel warna turquoise.
oh sgt pujaan hati n save my budget to buy 1!!!!
from Sookie, aku dpt Tommee Tippee Bottle's warmer.. mmg nak beli tp ingat nak tangguh dulu tup2 dpt hadiah oh heaven.. jimat duit n suka sgt sbb aku dah beli few of the Tommee's bottle.
from Hasni.. oh ni byk skit hadiah dia.. Aku dpt 1 set of mitten n booties, 1 set of pillows, 1 dress n receiving blanket. Pastu yg tak tahan dia siap balut 1 1 n letak dlm paper bag besar..
kalu aku semua aku punggah dlm paper bag tuh hahaha but thanks babe for the gift!!!
Syazo n Shah bg aku Fisher price's toys n Body Shop's set for me!! Yeay at last mak baby punya hadiah pun dpt gak!!! siap beli 3 balloons lg syaz mcm aku da bersalin dah hahahaha
n tak lupa Abg Sham (Syaz's bro) n Winnie (his soon to be wife) bg 1 set of Baby Phat's romper.
Anak aku so Kimora Lee Simmons kah nanti?? No No No k munchkin.
again thanks all for the great gift!!!!

Cik Awir explaining the rules of the games.

then kitaorg teruskan ngan activity main games..
cik Awir dah sediakan few games.
tp plg aku suka game 1st.
diaorg kena reka baju utk my Mr Gingerbread man.

Ain n Syazo.
apsal nampak muka korang mcm tgh berpantang ek??
hahahahaha
ok time ni ain masih boleh di kawal
haha

diaorg divide the group by 2.
so each team ade 3 org.
beriya2 buat siap ade decorations ribbon, fur ape jelah yg diaorg jumpa.
so funny coz bising nak mati si Ain n Sookie asik gadoh2 mulut
n suppose they should finish it not more than 15 minutes tp end up nak dekat 1 jam ok main diz game~!!! sampai aku pun bosan leh gi snap pic makanan lg.. hahahahaha
tp ingatkan snap guna camera sendiri rupanya terpakai camera Hasni
wakakakakaka tulah sape suh camera sama!!! aku pun blur je
sedangkan warna casing camera lain kot!!!

Group B.
team member : cik wir, Cik Hasni n Sookie.
huyooo beriya cik wir melukis...
pic sookie plg susah nak snap
coz she cant stop moving..
nak candid pun susah.

Team A
team member : Ain, Syazo n Idot.
time ni actually da start berperang mulut.
lawak giler!

concentrate no 1

concentrate no 2
tp dunno y ain n idot pandang
tetiba 2 2 gerak..

and the result might be scary...
sila jgn tgk pic ni mlm2..
anda akan di hantui imej ini 7 malam berturut....

presenting the winner of decorating the voodoo doll

wakakakakakakaka
so funny!!!
rasa nak pecah perut bila ingat balik..
siap ada fur n manik2 lg.

Pastu main few more games tp again tade pic
bengang je tak dpt pic byk..
yelah sape je nak snap kan.. kitaorg bz bermain
yg laki2 pulak bz ber"chit chatting" sambil mengunyah..
pastu seko2 diaorg da mcm berat buntot..
So around 3.45 pm Syazo n Shah balik.. :(
da la dtg plg lambat blk plg cepat..
boring je.. kan best if ayah Syaz bg cuti je 1 hari...
tlg geram utk dia..
then Bf hasni lak dah sampai amik dia n sookie,
last2 tinggal cik wir, idot n ain je..
kitaorg main game LIFE.
Ain spt biasa asik main tipu jer..
siot jer.. haha
end up semua give up main coz penat..
then cik wir tlg kemas2 skit n take all her stuff..
masa ni br lah teringat nak bergambar...
so here goes..

only 4 of us.
sob sob
pic org lain tade
coz lupa teramat nak snap sama2 :(

with cik wir si manis jelita.
menci snap pic ngan dia.
dia mmg photogenic
so aku....???
hah!!! berani sambung ayat tuh!

with my sweetheart
Ain Carey.
plg becok hari tuh :P
tp bread pudding secret recipe dia terbaik!

with Idot..!!
ok nampak tak my bump??
tak nampak dah tak lama lah tuh..
very big ah!!

with encik kittycat a.k.a husband nakal.
ni lg menyampah snap pic ngan dia
asik nak sorok belakang aku je.
mentang2 awak kecik!

3 of us.
with 3 balloons
on the 3 seater sofas .. eh perlu kah?

ok now lengkap.
4 of us :)
thanks friend
i love u all!!!

Lepas sesi photo ni je
sorang2 balik... ain the last 1 yg balik.
kul 7 sumthin kot lg pun hujan lebat time tuh n ajib pun dtg br nak mkn..
so lepak2 jap then diaorg gerak.
Overall mmg enjoy giler hari tuh
n sampai sakit belakang n tido awal..
to my girlfriends u guys are the best..
thanks coz bersusah payah buat event ni for me.
n thanks for spending ur time, money n energy for me
even though its only few of us
we do have fun kan!!
thank you from the bottom of my heart.
u guys ROCK~!!